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I sent this letter to our state representative and senator. I share it with you as an open letter.
Gentlemen Rep. Mike Bergen and Sen. Mike Klimesh,
I continue to be flummoxed by the Republican political obsession with sex – that is, with how other people express their sexual side because of who they are. Sex is nature, not ideology or religion – regardless of the ideology that now says otherwise. I don’t understand how our Iowa laws are increasingly reflecting this strange obsession by defining sex and gender topics as obscene, taboo or unmentionable and attempting to make it impossible to teach or find publicly available information about or mention the science or enjoyment of this complex biological imperative.
Do you remember when you hit puberty? I do. Was it evil? Did you find your sudden new attraction driven by an ideology or religion? Neither did I. It just happened one day when I realized certain body parts on certain people resulted in a different reaction than the day before. And nature did this to me, as it likely did to you, and to others who happened to have different reactions they didn’t fully understand. None of us picked our innate response.
Evidence suggests that both of you have had sex, and I hope you continue to have and enjoy sex. It is a gift, not a curse. And my guess is that you don’t want me and my wife figuratively peeking into your bedroom with a shaming tsk-tsk finger wag at how you do it. And nobody I can think of intends to ask you if they can do what they do, regardless of stupid laws.
Banning thoughts and information never works, even if it feels good and powerful to the enforcers. You can’t stop puberty, and hormones are not actually subject to ideology. I hope you can respect your constituents’ rights to both sexual privacy, expression and information in both schools and public libraries. Freedom of information is (was?) a core American value. Cherish it while you have it. You too will miss it when it’s gone.
And now making it a felony for a minor to attend a drag show? Really? Do you have any grasp of the long history of drag? Are you old enough to remember Bob Hope, Milton Berle, Jackie Gleason? Them in drag was a staple of family television when I was young. Look them up. Please read the Wikipedia listing of drag history as a plot element on stage and screen (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cross-dressing_in_film_and_television). And think of all the would-be felons who watched Shakespeare at the Globe in London through the years, when women weren’t allowed on the stage, so men played women. Oh, and how about dressing up as a witch or Barney or Sponge Bob Square Pants on Halloween. Yikes! They’re not even human, and probably the Devil’s work.
Come on, guys, don’t participate in making us and our children stupid — and embarrassed to be Iowans — by banning access to words or mutually consenting actions just because the most conservative religions organizations find them offensive because of this sex obsession. Knowledge prevention is not the way forward. Banning other peoples’ thoughts and access to valid human information is just a political over-compensation mechanism for those who think they have a right to rule and punish people who don’t share their obsession with all things sexual. And most people don’t!
As our lawmakers, we need you to 1.) recognize that this oppressive society will have to continually arrest and punish most Iowa citizens for their very private actions and thoughts about sex, and you’ll need big detention centers to house us all; and thus 2.) actively stand up, on the public record, against these travesties of personal freedom.
Thank you.
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